Celebration of being sexual
Tantra is a celebration of sex and being sexual as our true nature and main drive in life. Tantric practitioners believe that sexual energy is same as life energy.
It is about play and connection between masculine and feminine and learning how to play with this polarity to have happy fulfilling relationship. Tantra is a language of love and art of living from the heart and following your true calling. In Tantra philosophy, we approach the male and female genitals (in Sanskrit Lingham and Yoni) from a place of the utmost love and respect. Lingham and Yoni massage is a practice intended to truly honor a person , to give him or her selfless pleasure, and to explore the sacred side of our sexuality.
Such sessions can be very healing for those who had experienced disappointing sex or suffered sexual trauma in their past, because the approach and technique is all about giving to the person — making her/him feel loved, cherished, accepted, and honored and holding the space for whatever that wants to come to the surface and needs to be expressed.
What can happen during a tantra massage session
One can experience a variety of feelings like deep relaxation, joy, gratitude, excitement and be moved to tears. Some people can shift into a trance-like state but don’t expect too much from yourself during your first sessions. It is important to stay aware and accept whatever appears or doesn’t appear during your session. It is best to approach your tantric massage with curiosity and as few expectations as possible.
You are welcome to come as you are. How you will experience your session is very individual and it is always somehow experimenting. It depends on your level of stress, what you are currently dealing with in life, previous sexual experiences, being able to give yourself permission to truly receive and let go, your body image, your intention for the session and more.
Some people may experience a tearful release of emotions, tied to past experiences of being touched or the lack of it… Every feeling and experience is welcome in a tantric massage.